葬儀について思うこと

鴻巣市のひな飾り

3/2I attended and helped out at the funeral until 3/7.。look at the funeral、Sponsored by、Try to help me、I feel like it's a heavy burden.。

A child cares for the death of a parent、It is the duty of the child to give a fine funeral in gratitude for the blessings given to them during their lifetime.、I wonder what it is? The more I experience funerals, the more、I'm starting to think that way。Those words、Just to make it visible to others、Are you exhausted physically, mentally, and financially?。

no matter how small the scale、If you are planning a Buddhist-style funeral at a funeral director,、It always costs close to 1 million yen with all that.。And it's hectic、There is no time to mourn death。Only the emptiness and the burden of money will weigh on me later.。Looking at Japan as a whole、It must be a terrible (not to say wasteful) burden.。This is really、of the child left behind、Is this a duty that a family should take on?。If you are hospitalized for a long time due to illness、All the more, the burden is heavy.。

when I die、At the very least, I want her to be frugal so that she won't be a burden to her child.、Or I want to disappear before that happens.、I think there are many people who think that。at least、Many people would like that money to be used for their children and their families.。Some people say they can leave money for their own funeral.、Of course there are many、I feel like I'd like to spend that money while I'm still healthy.。