"Speak your true feelings"、The reaction of the recipient is ① “Trouble”、② “I don’t care.”、③ “I’m happy”、It seems to be divided into three main parts。
① is、Losing the sense of distance that was maintained (upset)、Sense of unity) ② Indifference、or tolerance、③People trust me (feeling of closeness)、sense of duty), etc. There are various reactions.、And the environment and personality of the recipient greatly influences。
Only a minority are positive、That's why it's safe to use standard responses as a job manual.。As a result, ``the ideal is to create an environment where people can express their true feelings.''、Advancing。But in reality, no one will respond、A Japanese-style contradictory environment has become established: "There is no one who can do it."。
In a word、Even though I can clearly see my true feelings, ``I don't have the luxury of worrying about other people.''、Respond only outwardly、"Mask wearing"、Japan、This is the Asian-style “first meeting” ritual manual.。
but、“The response after the initial reaction” is what、most asian、Japanese、Probably beyond the imagination of Westerners。The idea that there are only two choices: “Is this a friend or an enemy?”。Japanese people have become much better at camouflage.、South Korea、If you look at China、(Especially in the Far East) Where are our qualities as Asians?、I feel like I can understand it well。
